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What is it, how do you get it and how awesome is it?
Here are examples of Profile Bling and how you can get your own! (I'm the QueenBee and LOVE my bling!)
Example: QueenBee (Only one!) Verified Real Woman Dating Profile Patron (Donate $1,000 or more)
Note the post background is not white, but colored lavender.
Any member can have a dating profile. ONLY Gold Members, Patrons and Verified Real Women can respond to dating profiles though! (See Account Upgrades)
Example of how Profile Bling shows up on your personal profile: Gold Member Verified Real Man (See Account Upgrades under your personal profile) Anyone checking you out will know that you're one of the few who actually put their money where their mouth is and support a site owned and run by real strong women!
And this is how cool a Gold Members profile looks when posting in the forum. It's OBVIOUS who supports SMTR!
Example: Moderator Verified Real Woman Gold Supporter
Example: There are VERY few Patrons! These special people have donated in excess of $1,000 to the upgrading and maintenance of this website! Note how the color of their posts look in comparison to everyone else.
Example: Not yet a site supporter (These are the people not supporting the site. They have no ability to send personal messages or respond to dating profiles.)