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Private messaging aka private conversations rules
Because we've had such an issue with inappropriate messages to the women, we've made it so that only those who are site supporters are allowed to send personal conversations.
If you are interested in responding to a members dating profile, you may only respond if you are a site supporter. We do this to protect our members from those who would play games or have multiple profiles. If you're serious and value this site and it's members, then we're sure you'll be happy to help support our custom programming and other costs to maintain this wonderful community.
Do not email any members with inappropriate personal, rude or kinky questions or offers if you have not been invited to do so. If a member complains you could be banned from SMTR with no hearing. If you have been bothered, you will be asked for proof and we reserve the right to do as we see fit.
MEN DO NOT EMAIL, PRIVATE MESSAGE, ETC., MARRIED WOMEN AT ALL, UNLESS YOU HAVE BEEN EXPRESSLY ASKED TO DO SO.
Members who sign on and immediately start messaging members with ANY unwelcome message, including messages of just 'hi', you will be removed from this site.