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Welcome to She Makes The Rules

She Makes the Rules website is completely owned and run by real everyday women. It was designed for women who are interested in learning how to embrace their inner strength and management skills! Women do tend to make the best managers of their home and family, as our brains are simply wired differently from men. We appreciate the men who accept and appreciate us for who we are and support us in this process.

She Makes the Rules is intended to be about real life daily living when we accept who we are and how powerful we women can be. Some of us are good leaders and caretakers of our families, and we do tend to MAKE THE RULES in our households, or at least the majority of them! (Where else does men sleeping on the couch or being in the dog house come from?) After trying hard for many years to fit into the old Patriarchal style of family life, our founder Debbie (aka QueenBee) realized that she wasn't being true to her own skills and strengths in managing her home and family. In an effort to get her hard earned lessons about personal happiness, how to create the happiest of relationships (and have fun with our sexuality), and self acceptance out to other women, this website was created.

Some of our great features

  • Ask Questions and receive answers from Women and Men in a variety of FLRs

  • Discover like-minded friends and premium membership benefits!

  • Share your ideas for love, life, and family!

Is this the place for you?

Some quick questions to consider before joining

For the Women

  • Are you making decisions for your family? Or at work?
  • Are you the one people turn to in a crisis?
  • Are you the 'rock' your family depends on?
  • Are you the one who makes the plans for your family?
  • At work are you the woman with all the answers?
  • Has your boyfriend/husband approached you with the idea of taking more control? (And maybe you even think he's crazy, but you're willing to at least look into it?)
  • Has anyone ever referred to you as an 'in charge woman', 'exceptionally confident', 'very clear in asking for what you need', or feels that you have that potential?
  • Do you plan events for your friends and family?

For the Men

  • Do you simply like being around women who are confident?
  • Is your wife/girlfriend a strong woman that you have confidence in? Are you wanting to support her in embracing her inner bossiness and building self confidence?
  • Are you happy when you please the woman you love?
  • Does it feel good when you're taking care of others you care for?
  • Do you want to take a mental break from being in charge when you are at home?
  • Are you honest enough to know that a lot of women rule the roost in a nice way?
  • At times is it easier when a woman simply TELLS you what she really wants you to do? (No more guessing!)

Become a gold supporter today

  • Your posts and username will be styled to stand out from the crowd with an official 'Gold Member' status. Show that you aren't another schmuck who talks the talk but doesn't walk the walk!

  • Do you truly believe in supporting strong women? This site has no ads and doesn't sell your personal information. Supporting us proves that you are willing to keep alive a website that teaches women and men about the realities of strong women leading their relationships.

  • QueenBee gives special rates for Life and Relationship coaching to Gold Members! (Coaching in person, via Skype or email)